Talking about marriage a lot of regrets. Sorry if you know thisfavors why not the first. Regret was a lot of misery. Marry itnot easy, easy it kabulnya consent. The five pillars of marriage must be memorizedand must complete all of them.Similarly, a mandatory requirement of marriage to men who must be considered.What if we do not yet have a cost? It must be believed that each person hadno sustenance. Married that combines two fortune, fortune women and menmet, the problem is whether the provision was taken in a way that blessedor not. God did not create man with a sense of hunger without beingfood. Turn man to worship God which of courserequires energy, it is impossible God does not give us sustenance.The cost of marriage is not a costly matter, what matters there. So when itemergency even allowed to borrow to get married rather than closer to adultery.If you are married after the consent granted, do not be so riya by holdingreceptions. This is not going to be a blessing. For example ininvited, only include the rich only, the poor are not invited.Even the Prophet forbade invited by discriminating status. Inheld a reception not to expect replies income earned.Dowry problem the best are the gold dowry money and the mostgood is money. Give her as much as we can, not onlystruggling with a set of prayer alone. Messenger prefers goldand money and this is the right woman. Early marriage do not imagine a housegood. And the best husband to his wife's words are advised wifefor close to God. If the wife is close to God and he will be guaranteed byHopefully God through us. Three formula that must always remember there arein sura Al-Asyr. Every day increases, increasing age, we were losing moneyexcept the three groups that lucky group.The first group is the one who always thought hard how to orderher belief in God increases. For all the happiness and gloryproportional to the level of confidence in God. No one is sincereexcept believe in God. No patient unless known to God. Noorng the ascetic to the world except the person who knows the wealth of God. Notawadhu people except those who know the greatness of God. The more familiar andknow with God all considered small. Every day in our lives shouldthink about how we are close to God.If God loves creatures of all affairs will be OK. One proofhundredth of a bountiful nature of God's creation can be distributed to allviewed the attitude of a mother who gave birth to a child. Time painbirth, nine months pregnant without complaining that the child is not necessarilywill repay the kindness. Not sleeping when her son was sick, taking care of children from the startKindergarten through high school. Thinking about college costs. Start financed until marriage to have childreneven accepted to stay at home mother. But his willingness is still onlyradiated. That is one hundredth of the nature of God.Always willing commitment of households where this will be taken. Maybe the fatheror a mother who died earlier this important family will gather at the Paradise.Regardless of a home should be a way closer to God. Buy goodsshould any items you like God. So that our homes be homesdispleasing to Allah. May have good things without colored with arrogant.Not the case expensive or cheap, good or not but whether it canaccounted hand of God or not. Even in listening to the songdispleasing to Allah who knows when we are called by God to hear the song. Our houseGod must be oriented. Calligraphy with the words of God. We are pleased to see the houseluxury and Islamic. Make all the treasures to be preaching from cars to houses.Each had the money to buy books, create libraries at home for guestsvisit to read and add to knowledge. Do not give gifts widths onlyfood, try to provide books, tapes and other useful readings. Do not fretthinking about our needs, it's all not going anywhere. God knowsour needs than our own. God created the intestine with the design fornot hungry may not be fed. God told us to close the genitalia, notmay not be given clothes.What we think God already knows what we think. Which shouldwe think about is how close to God, then God's willcare. We tend to think that was not ordered by God notthat he had caused. If our relationship with God good all will be OK.Any person who kept close to God, will be given a way out everybusiness. And secured with sustenance from places unexpected. Andwhoever convinced her that God had everything, everything will dicukupkanneeds. So is not this world be a problem but our relationshipwith Allah is the problem.The second class are households that will lose is the householdless charitable. Never tired to think about what we want, but think about whatwe can do. Our minds should only think of two things namelyhow the liver can be clean, sincere, and clear so do whatever sincereand that both continue to increase the strength to continue doing. Thought it was notrefers to earn money but how menyedekahkan money,help, and happy person with a smile. So wherever wewas like a radiant sun that illuminates the dark, to pick the seeds,brighten the atmosphere. After that submit to God. Each of us pickedgarbage for the sake of Allah will be rewarded by God.His colleagues all, Let us change the paradigm. Households that mostlucky is the most widely household productivity kindness. MoneyThe most blessed is the money the most high productivity, is not happysee our money on deposit or savings recorded. Money should be placed inBank. What happens is multiefek for others, it makes our moneyblessed. Instead of the money we saved in the bank then the bank went bankrupt,stored under the mattress fear of being robbed.Kaya may home productive. May have intended to house many of originblessed by God it will prosper. Purchase of land as wide as possible. Mostdonated, then built a mosque. Rewards will flow to us untildoomsday. So continue to look for money not to enrich themselves butdistribute to the community. Alms it will not reduce our treasureexcept to grow. So our minds are not going to get what we? but willdo we?. Is this the day I was helping people, have a smile,how many people I said, how many people I help you?The more demanding the more accomplished. The more strongly we insist that God does notpermit will not be realized. We have respected, even God's willshows our shortcomings. We actually will be abused, hurt results. Peoplethe lucky ones, each time earning his thoughts about goodness. While livingdo, after death we will not be able. If it's doing God's willwill give, that's his name sustenance. People who are fortunate are those whoThe most productive kindness.A third of households or people who are lucky it is thought eachday thinking about how he could be a counsel in truth and patienceand he lovers of counsel in truth and patience. Every day seek inputadvice everywhere. The words that best that we say isask for advice and counsel. Ask for advice to the child's father, would not necessarilyloss of prestige. Similarly, a supervisor in the office.We must strive every day to get information and corrections from outside parties,we will not be a good adviser before he became a person whobe advised. We can not give advice if we can not acceptadvice. Do not ever argue, increasingly busy defending themselves more clearlyour weaknesses. The reason is our weakness. How to answer the criticism isevaluation and self-improvement. It may take a month even a year.Enjoy advice as sustenance and living proof of success. Dear life onlyonce and a while just to deceive yourself. Feel cool in the world but despisedbefore God. Feeling clever but foolish in the eyes of God.Hopefully we can apply the three things above. Every time fliesincrease the knowledge for faith to increase, every time the content by adding the reward.
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