Being a wife and a mother's weight at the same time. Not only timespare yourself a percentage that must be scrapped for the sake of the family,but also the portion of empowering themselves who seem to have graduallydegradation. Due to busy taking care of the household then? So to speak ofthe reason some women.I met many friends who are married women, who complain about thingsabove. They say that much of their time is taken overonly take care of household knick-knacks, from start affairs kitchen, laundry,clean house, serve their husbands, and keep children to sleepuntil late at night. Power and the mind has definitely drained. And ends,forgiveness that is often so weapons are no longer to diligently read the book,multiply recitations, and do other voluntary forms of worship.Though being a mother and wife need power, not only interms of physical strength. A mother who has extensive knowledge, will be'School' eternal future for their children, and obedience will formthey become one full of faith. A wife who hasintelligence, will certainly be a friend to talk and confide in the very heartfun for the husband. Nor worship maintained, would make the husbandgrowing mutual affection and motivated to improve the quality of self.The problem now is on the skills of each woman's self tomanaging all its activities. So no longer is no reason 'no time'or 'no time'. There is no one perfect mother and wife, but weall can try to optimize the existing power, to remainThis self made 'glow' not only from the outside.I know a young mother who has had four children. Ageitself may be about three decades. He was a fairly prolific writer, andeven recently has issued another new book. I immediatelyinterested to ask about tips-tricks in taking the time towriting, whereas three children had school. I imagine, howbusy he must divide his time to them. One of my tipsget is, write in the morning around eight to elevennoon. At that time, her three children were in school, and her husband are inoffice, until he had enough time to finish the script. Well,if so, there was no 'break in the morning' or 'siesta' dong! So I thoughtinstantly. But he replied, "While waiting for their return, the time availablemust be best utilized. "Trying to become self-reliant to meet personal needs, it is not wrong.Especially when we are able to share their time in such a way that nopriorities are sacrificed.Then when the day was the day and all children had gathered, taking theto spread the attention and affection to them. Smallmay be asleep until the afternoon came, and they are already busy withschool affairs to gather together his mother, telling thewhat happened at school, until the affairs of finishing workhome.When it was evening time, we can free them to play for a while, andinvites little sister who shared whenever possible, while ourpreparing to cook dinner and welcome her husband. Cleanand beautify themselves, is important. With a fresh body, fatigue which maybeen attacked since noon at least a little relieved. Relaxing momentwith a book, can also be a choice of activities to break.Towards the evening prayer, invite the children to gather, reading prayersdaily. Perhaps they also will be very happy if the mother is pleasedread the stories of the Prophets and Companions struggle, or the full storyother lessons. Of course this can be done before they sleep. Tellor storytelling is a form of communication and effective learningfor children.And when the husband has come home, it would be nice if the whole familyto perform prayers in congregation, followed by dinner.Really, is not easy being a wife and mother, and it was impossible torealize the dream become 'super mom' or 'super-wife'. Among the activitiesdescribed above will certainly meet many obstacles, in accordance with the conditionseach one different. However, remains optimistic and tries to performbest, is also a thing worth fighting for. Do not rush inhouse is a form of obedience for women?So excited! Do not make this noble role as a moment in which welet degradation faith into temptation. While waiting to go home, set our hearts to be able to improve the quality yourself!